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    Teaching Social Skills with Social Stories

    Teaching With Social Stories

    WHAT ARE SOCIAL STORIES?

    Do you use social stories in your classroom?

    Social stories are simple stories that describe common situations which occur frequently in the classroom.

    Social stories:

    • state a situation clearly
    • possible feelings that may occur
    • self-talk strategies that can be helpful
    • the desired outcomes.

    These stories have been especially helpful for my younger students, students with autism, or students with self-regulation problems.

    Over the last 20+ years of teaching, I have seen many students struggle to navigate the complex social situations in the classroom. The many transitions and social dynamics can cause “big emotions” that can be overwhelming to their young minds if they don’t yet possess the right tools to manage them.

    Social stories give students the opportunity to learn, practice, and demonstrate appropriate social skills.

    social stories


    HOW MUCH TIME WILL I NEED?

    As the school year starts, I choose topics that are likely to be relevant, such as fire drills, bathroom expectations or walking in the hallway. We focus on one topic per week, and spend a bit of time each day reviewing the key concept.

    Here’s a typical week of planning (about 20 minutes a day):

    Monday – Introduce a new topic (using a teacher script), and read a social story about it. Discuss the concepts and give students their own one-page folded mini-book versions to make.

    Tuesday – Review the story using posters as a reference; students complete a journal writing template or printing task.

    Wednesday – Read or perform a one-page partner play about the topic, or role play.

    Thursday – Discussion: Invite students to discuss whether they have used the strategies from our social story. Complete a cut/sort activity about making good choices.

    Friday – Final review of concepts in fun ways, such as using a board game, making a flip-book, or creating “brag tag” rewards for that topic. Students can bring all of their work home so parents can reinforce the concepts outside of school.


    WHAT ARE THE SOCIAL STORY TOPICS?

    Ideally, your topics should arise from situations that occur in your classroom. Whenever you have to help to mediate a conflict or notice students having difficulty, take a moment to make a note of it so you can make a social story about it.

    Here are some of the social story topics I have covered in my own classroom:

    ★ I Can Use Calm Down Strategies
    ★ I Can Be Assertive
    ★ Fire Drills
    ★ I Can Raise My Hand (Wait To Talk)
    ★ I Can Clean Up Quickly
    ★ I Won’t Interrupt (ie. when adults are talking)
    ★ Losing A Game – I Can Handle It!
    ★ I Can Use My Inside Voice
    ★ Mistakes Are Okay (I Can Learn From Them)
    ★ Being Flexible When Plans Change
    ★ Taking Good Care Of Belongings
    ★ Personal Space
    ★ I Can Focus On My Tasks
    ★ I Can Keep Trying (Practice and Perseverance)
    ★ I Can Share
    ★ I-Feel Messages for Conflict Resolution
    ★ Appropriate Behavior In The Hallway
    ★ I Am A Problem Solver
    ★ I Have Good Manners
    ★ Following Playground Rules
    ★ Asking To Play
    ★ Including Others
    ★ Giving My Best Effort
    ★ Smooth Transitions
    ★ Taking Turns
    ★ Substitute Teachers
    ★ Lining Up Quietly
    ★ Washing Hands/Prevent Spreading Germs
    ★ Being Kind
    ★ Saying Sorry
    ★ Respecting Differences – culture/appearance/ability
    ★ Spelling Strategies – stretch the word, listen for sounds, guess and move on

    social skills cards


    HOW TO BEGIN MAKING YOUR OWN STORIES

    Here’s a quick guide to creating social stories with your students:

    1. Think about which social issues are causing the MOST disruption in your classroom right now.
    2. Write down what the problem is, and invite an open discussion with your students to gather specific details. Brainstorm and record ideas.
    3. Validate your students’ feelings when they are expressed, and then discuss the desired and expected behavior. Be sure to explain the reason for rules, such as safety or consideration for another student’s learning.
    4. Turn your brainstorming notes into a “story” in either first or third person. For example: “When I am walking in the hallway it might be hard to keep my voice quiet. It’s important to be quiet so I don’t interrupt other students. When I want to shout in the hall, I can use self-talk to remind myself that others are working. My teacher and friends will be happy if I am quiet in the hallway.”
    5. You can turn the story into a poster, or make it into a book with one sentence on each page.
    6. Invite students to illustrate the books! Illustrations are particularly important for younger students.

     make social stories


    AFTER THE STORY:

    REINFORCING CONCEPTS

    As I mentioned above, I spend about a week on each topic. That means about 20 minutes each day talking, thinking, sharing and writing. What kind of activities can you do to reinforce these essential skills?

    I have some ideas for you:

    1. PARTNER PLAYS : My students LOVE reading partner plays in front of the class, or in small groups. We make our stories relevant by using situations that have actually happened in class (see pictures below).

    2. DISCUSSION CARDS : Whenever we have a few minutes, we grab a discussion card to have a quick talk with the class. These cards can describe a situation and ask open-ended questions about it. These cards also make great journal prompts! (See pictures below). They are also a great way to spontaneously review previous topics so they aren’t forgotten.

    3. DESK STRIPS : Many students benefit from having their own copy of a social story on their desk. It’s a visual reminder to make good choices and to use self-control. (See pictures below)

    4. READ AND SORT : Social stories are straight forward by design. They state the desired behaviors clearly and succinctly. Read and Sort activities are perfect for this kind of story; students decide if a described behavior is a good or not-so-good. (See pictures below).

    social skills ideas

    MORE SPECIFIC ACTIVITY IDEAS

    5. PRINTING: My younger students review our topics by making their own poster. The topic is stated in a short sentence for them to print. (See the picture below).

    6. REFERENCE POSTERS: Review each story in a single page for quick reference. These posters can be hung on the wall so you can reference them easily. (See the picture below).

    7. JOURNAL PROMPTS: Using journal templates, invite students to write their own ideas about each social skill. (See the picture below).

    8. REWARD COUPONS: Reinforce good choices with simple reward coupons! Students love coloring and collecting these. (See the picture below).

    9. REMINDER WATCHES: My students love wearing paper watches and having a social skill reminder right there on their arm is a great visual reminder, especially for ideas such as interrupting or using an inside voice. (See the picture below).

    10. GAME BOARDS: Games are a great way to reinforce ideas in a fun way. In this board game, students land on a spot and read the question. Both players discuss their ideas before moving on with the game. I often play this game in front of the whole class with the game board under a document camera so everyone can see and share ideas. (See the picture below).

    reinforcing social skills


    PERSONAL CONNECTIONS

    If possible, try to create or use social stories that are presented in both first person and third person. This approach allows students to view a problem in different ways and make personal connections with the experiences being described.

    You can take a look at the different options I use in my classroom by clicking HERE.

    class books


    REVIEWING TOPICS THROUGH THE YEAR

    There’s no point in teaching social skills if the the taught skills don’t transfer into my students’ everyday interactions with their peers and other people in the school. Hang the posters from each lesson on the wall so that you can refer back to them whenever a situation arises.

    Having these visual reminders on the wall is so helpful, especially for little ones.

    TEACHER TIP: If a student is having trouble internalizing a particular skill, I choose them to be “in charge” of making us a class poster for that topic! This makes them feel like an “expert” for that particular skill, and makes it more likely that they will focus on improving it throughout each day. Give it a try and you’ll see what I mean!

    Younger students may want to use posters like the ones below as reference.

    Social Stories bundle


    Check out this Social Stories bundle in the preview video below!




    START A COLLECTION OF IDEAS FOR LATER

    Are you ready to get started?

    The first step is to think about what’s happening in your classroom right now. You might even ask your students about it so they are involved in the process. Keep in mind that these stories do not have to be perfect, and you will likely get faster at making them as time goes on.

    If you prefer to use the stories and activities I have already created,  you can take a quick look at them by clicking HERE.

    Social stories are a game-changer for teaching social skills and self-regulation in the primary classroom. Each of the 32 topics in this bundle has a full week of lessons and activities, plus a teacher script to guide your discussion! #SEL #socialemotionallearning #characterdevelopment #gradeone #kindergartensocial stories bundle 2

    Or, if you are looking for more social skills lessons, or some free activity pages to try, you can find more ideas below!

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    Social stories are a game-changer for teaching social skills and self-regulation in the primary classroom. Read about some practical ideas to create a more peaceful classroom. #SEL #socialemotionallearning #characterdevelopment #gradeone #kindergarten

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    Social Stories are a perfect way to teach essential social skills for a peaceful classroom! Read about how to use and reinforce them (free downloads) #socialskills #characterdevelopment #kindergarten #autism




    MORE RESOURCES FOR S.E.L.

    The Kindness Classroom Program

    If you are looking for more lessons and fun activities for teaching social skills, you can see hundreds of lessons in the yearlong SEL program called The Kindness Classroom!

    This program covers the topics listed on the cover below, along with teacher scripts to introduce your lessons, printable storybooks for your classroom library, and lots more!

    Take a look at some examples below, or click on any image to see a more extensive preview.

    CLICK HERE TO SEE A QUICK VIDEO PREVIEW!


    Teaching Character Educations and social skills

    What’s Included In

    The KINDNESS CLASSROOM Curriculum?

    As pictured below, this curriculum includes a full year of resources and hundreds of activities!

    As with the Social Stories bundle above, there are teacher scripts to guide your lessons, printable storybooks, and lots of hands-on activities to reinforce essential skills. You can see some of them pictured below or get a more detailed look by clicking on the pictures.

    Teaching social skills and character development preview pictures

    Teaching social skills and character development preview pictures

     What are the topics covered in this unit? See the list below:

    unit overviews

    Click HERE to see a short video preview!


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    Teaching Social Skills Series : KINDNESS in the Classroom

    Teaching Social Skills Series : Books That Teach EMPATHY


    Pin for later!Social Emotional Learning lessons for the entire year, covering topics like emotions, growth mindset, conflict resolution, kindness and friendships, personal responsibility and gratitude!

    Create a peaceful and productive classroom by teaching essential social skills to students in Kindergarten or Grade 1, including self management, conflict resolution, growth mindset and friendship lessons. #SEL #social skills #character education


    Looking for your free pages? Click below!

    free social stories pages

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    Social stories are a game-changer for teaching social skills and self-regulation in the primary classroom. Each of the 32 topics in this bundle has a full week of lessons and activities, plus a teacher script to guide your discussion! #SEL #socialemotionallearning #characterdevelopment #gradeone #kindergarten

    Pin the free download for later!

    Social stories are a game-changer for teaching social skills and self-regulation in the primary classroom. FREE stories, partner plays and posters to create a more peaceful classroom. #SEL #socialemotionallearning #characterdevelopment #gradeone #kindergarten #socialstories

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